Chapter âMom, sheâs been sick, I overheard Patrick on the phone. Curious, I wandered over to him to see what was going on. I sat beside him on the couch, giving him a questioning look.
âHold on a second, Mom, Patrick , muting the phone. Mom wants you and me to come for dinner when you feel better,â he told me.
âSounds good to me,â I told him, kissing him and then picking up one of the many books I had spread across the house.
I was finally feeling better after a week of sickness. My fever had taken three to break, and when it finally did, I slept like the dead. None of the guys had gotten sick, and while I was happy I hadnât spread the cold around, I was grumpy that they werenât suffering like I was Drew felt this cold made me so sick because of all the stress I had been under, and even though I didnât want to admit itâ¦he was probably right.
Patrick and I headed to his parentâs house for dinner with his mom the following evening. The e six of us had a long talk yesterday decided to set up date nights so everyone would have some oneâonâone time with me. I also brought up that while I knew they all wanted to help and fix things for mic, there were times I tried to handle things myself without them taking over, and that if I said I needed time to myself, not argue with me. Josh had grumbled over the last part but agreed, and I promised that if something got too stressful, I would let them know and ask for help.
When Patrick parked in the driveway of his parentâs house, I noticed several of their cars were missing.
âAre your dads home tonight?â
âNo, they had work stuff to deal with. Itâs just us Mom tonight,â Patrick told me as he came around and helped me out of the car. Hand in hand, we made our way up to the house, where Shannon was waiting for us.
âOh my sweet girl, Iâm so glad to see you feeling better,â Shannon hugged me close, and I fought the urge to melt into her. She gave the best mom hugs.
âPatrick, we could have rescheduled. You didnât need to drag Emmy out if she wasnât feeling up to it.â I giggled as Shannon continued to âI sound a lot worse than I feel,â I promised. Patrick hung up the jacket Josh insisted I bring, then took my and followed Shannon into the kitchen.
âSmells good, Mom,â Patrick said.
âGood. I made Shepard pie. It should be ready in about five minutes, so why donât you kids go sit down, and I will be right there?
Patrick led me to the table, kissing me before returning to the kitchen to help his mom.
âEmmy, we have soda, or do you want water?â Shannon from the kitchenâ¦
âWater is good,â I called back.
Shannon came out with the drinks, and Patrick followed behind , carrying the Shepard Pie. He set the steaming dish the center of the table before sitting next to me wrapping his arm around me.
âI havenât had Shepard Pie in forever. I forgot how much I loved it.â I admitted as I took the plate; Patrick passed it to me.
Shannon promised me, âI will make sure you have the recipe before you move into your new place. When youâre feeling better, I want to review some recipes and anything else you need.â She continued.
âHey,â Patrick complained. You never did that for me when I moved out.â
âBecause you will whatever is put in front of , but you are welcome with Emmy if you want.â She said affectionately It wasnât until we sat down with our coffee after finishing dessert that Shannon mentioned significant topic change.
âI wanted to talk to you about something I wish I knew when your fathers and I married â
Patrick and I both froze.
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look so scared, you two, Shannon as she sipped her coffee. It will be painless, I promise, but I know how determined you all are to make your relationship work, and I just wanted to share some of my experiences with you.
âWhich experiences, Mom? There are definitely some topics I donât want to discuss with you, and I would prefer you didnât discuss them with our I girlfriend.â
âOh, Patrick, itâs nothing like that,â Shannon with a smile. Itâs just that unconventional relationships are as much work, if not more, than conventional ones. Itâs hard enough with two peopleâs needs, but it is even more challenging the more people you add.
âThatâs very true, I said as I shifted to lean against Patrick. He wrapped his arm around me, kissing the side of my head.
âWe are always talking and working on figuring things out, being honest with each other, I told Shannon.
âThatâs great to hear, Shannon told me. âCommunication will save you all a lot of stress, but there are also things like jealousy, expectations, and boundaries.â
âI think we have dealt with the jealousy,â Patrick told her. I know it can still happen, or one of us get envious if someone gets a little than others, but we have all discussed expectations and our boundaries, more time âJust make you all keep talking, even if you think something protect each other from what you want will to resentment and spoil your relationship. Thatâs why communication is so important. Fixing a small g isnât a big deal or you donât want to make someone feel bad. Trying too hard to problem is much easier than a big one.â She looked at Patrick. âDid your fathers ever tell you that we broke up for a while before you were bom? She asked him.
Patrick looked shocked and shook his head. âNo, they never said anything.â
âWe learned the hard way about what happens when we allow little things to build without talking about them, but as you come together and work it out,â she said, nodding toward Patrick, who blushed.
Patrick kissed my forehead and then looked over at his mom. âThanks, Mom,â
you can see, we were able to âYouâre welconse, love, and Emmy; if you ever need to vent, you can call me, even in the middle of the night. I have lots of experience dealing with n and you can even complain about my son.â
âHey, Patrick grumbled. But I was already across the room hugging Shannon, and Patrick was grinning as he watched us.